Parenting… I’m guessing there’s probably nothing more satisfying or fulfilling. Then again, there’s probably nothing quite so stressful or frustrating. Every parent wants to create a safe and supportive environment for their children. But, that often means sacrificing as an adult, especially with home decor.
Whether it’s child-proofed corners, washable rugs, non-breakable accessories or toys galore, most parents simply give up on having anything too “designer”. At least they give up until the kids are teenagers or out of the house completely! Having strictly adult spaces with kids is a challenge for any family. So, it’s always fun for us when we have the opportunity to help clients create spaces that allow for adult activities while leaving others that are more family-oriented and kid-friendly.
We’ve recently been working with clients in McHenry, IL who wanted to create an adult space in their ground floor bonus room. With a young son, the couple’s entire three-story town home was very kid-centric to say the least. They envisioned at least one area in the home where they could de-stress, relax and just be without having to child-proof or sacrifice on any of the creature comforts adults enjoy.
Their vision for the space was a media room for relaxing, taking a nap, reading a book or watching tv & movies. With a monster 86″ flat-screen tv and killer sound system, this space would be an adult retreat from the organized chaos of family life upstairs.
Wanting several grown up elements, they asked that we incorporate a coffee/wine bar theme in the space. Since they’d already purchased a new ultra-deep sofa, entertainment center & bookcase, we were asked to simply pull their vision together by bringing in everything else from window coverings to artwork, lighting to accessories.
After several weeks of space planning and shopping for the details, we returned to give the room the adult theme the owners so desperately wanted and deserved.
First, we replaced the white, wood blinds with new bamboo roman shades for warmth and privacy. Then, we added a reclaimed-wood & metal console table to serve as both wine & coffee bar. (espresso machine on order) To it, we added wine stem storage with wine racks on the floor underneath. Three gray, leather storage cubes were added. They can serve as extra seating, tables and storage for unused pillows and throws. A black, wire mesh chair in the corner offers additional seating. A new c-table provides a place for a cup of coffee or glass of wine while snuggling on the extra-deep sofa.
Without a ceiling fixture, we needed to create a lighting triangle to take care of any dark corners in the room. So, we added a beautiful floor lamp from Crate & Barrel by the sofa. Then we placed a pewter teardrop lamp from World Market on the floor by the tv. Finally, a glass bottle accent lamp from HomeGoods found its spot on the bookcase.
An avid audiophile, the husband wanted acoustic panels in the room to help with sound. By some miracle, he’d already found some. Covered with burlap, coffee bean bags, they fit perfectly into our design. So we used 6 of them above the sofa doubling as artwork. We added a framed burlap bulletin and chalk board to cover the unsightly electrical panel. And we added a family photo wall and other metal bowl art from World Market to balance the space.
Every little detail from coffee cups and spoons to serving trays and flavored syrups were added. And lastly, we poured coffee beans into the vintage sugar molds on the window sill. Good design touches as many of the senses as possible. So we made sure the wonderful aroma of the coffee beans filled the air as well as any neighborhood coffee house.
The end result is a room that allows for plenty of “adulting”. Whether it’s for a cup of coffee with the morning news, a game of chess or a great movie, this space went from a sad, underutilized storage area to a media room any adult would enjoy.
The moral of this story is this. Finding the right combination of kid-friendly spaces, family spaces and adult spaces makes any home feel more balanced. It offers adults the opportunity to be adults in their own home while still having spaces for kids to be kids. When everyone’s needs are met, family happiness ensues!
Happy Adult Decorating from Decor Designs. 815-245-2433